What Can I Do? By Barbara A. Glanz.
As
the subtitle says, this book offers “Ideas to Help Those Who Have
Experienced Loss.” In this book the author, who has experienced
numerous losses, tells exactly how to help someone we love survive a
loss. She understands what people want and need from family and
friends in their darkest hours. The book is filled with countless
suggestions of immediate practical ideas as well as long term,
specific ways to help someone move from grieving to growth, and
eventually to cherishing good memories of the deceased loved one.
Some of the 16 chapter titles are:
Choose Your Words Carefully, The Blessing of Tears, Anticipate the
Person's Needs and Offer Practical Help, Remember the Children, Share
Good Memories, Celebrate the Life of the Person, Do Little Things
that Add Joy to Someone's Day, Create Traditions that Keep the Memory
of a Loved One Alive. The book includes a listing of resources
(publications, organizations, websites, etc.) to further help the
person in pain.
From Augsburg Books (Minneapolis) in
2008, this 173-page book sold for $13.99 (trade cover).
Financial
Relief for Single Parents by
Brenda Armstrong. This book offers hope for those single parents
facing financial hardship by showing them how to achieve financial
freedom. It gives lots of tools to help you manage your financial
resources. It includes valuable information on how to set up a
spending plan, gain money-stretching ideas, and learn biblical
principles of money management. It deals with virtually every aspect
of our financial lives: taxes, giving, debt reduction, insurance,
investments, entertainment, home decorating, clothing, and tithing.
Some of the nine chapter titles
include: Necessities; Walls, Wheels & What's to Eat; Lightening
Up; Walking on Thin Ice; and Reflecting God's Image. The book also
includes some valuable worksheets to help outline the person's spending
plan and debt reduction as well as several pages for the kids to use
in developing their own budget based on their income (allowances,
earnings, etc.) and expenses.
From Moody Publishers (Chicago) in
2007, this 183-page book sells for $13.99 (trade cover).
First
Comes Love, Then What? by
Kimberly Beair. This book is for anyone desiring a positive marital
relationship. The author says that finding the right mate doesn't
usually happy by chance or luck, you need to know and employ certain
principles to guide you in the right selection of a lasting
relationship. This book will teach you a lot about yourself as well
as what to look for and avoid in a marriage. It will also deal with
some common misconceptions and unrealistic expectations about
marriage and offer sound, practical advice on how to avoid broken
hearts and broken marriages.
Some of the ten chapter titles are:
Challenging Your Assumptions, Know Thyself, I'm Still
Interested---Now What?, Dealing with Problem Areas, Recognizing the
Red Flags, Getting to “I Do,” Conflict and Communication and
Making the Most of Every Stage. Each chapter concludes with a set of
questions to help you reflect on that chapter's content and relate it
to your own personal dating relationships.The author also sprinkles
around lots of appropriate quotes or “words of wisdom” to further
stimulate your thoughts on the content of that chapter.
From Tyndale House (Carol Stream, IL)
in 2008, this 174-page book sells for $13.99 (trade cover).
With
This Ring: Promises to Keep
by
Joanna Weaver. In this book the author looked at the history and
meaning behind the phrases of the wedding vows and the significance
of the wedding ceremony itself. The author includes many inspiring
stories and meaningful quotes that illustrate the deeper meaning
behind each aspect of the wedding ceremony. A perfect book for anyone
preparing to exchange vows, celebrating a marital milestone or simply
wanting tor capture the beauty of the promises they share as husband
and wife. This would also make for a great gift by the officiating
clergy to the wedding couple.
The 35 short chapters are divided into
five parts: The Betrothal Pledge, The Ceremony, The Vows, The Tokens,
and The Declaration. Each chapter includes space to record treasured
memories, shared dreams and meaningful reflections.
From WaterBrook Press (Colorado
Springs) in 2008, this gift book sells for $12.99 (hardback).
What
Women Wish You Knew About
DATING
by Stephen W. Simpson, Ph.D. Subtitled, a Single Guy's Guide to
Romantic Relationships, this book covers the waterfront on dating.
While offering lots of very practical advice, it focuses on spiritual
and emotional issues in a man's life and how they affect his dating
life. Though written for men, there are sidebars throughout the book
geared toward women to help them understand men, along with tips they
can use to help the men in their life. In the end, the author
challenges his readers to not neglect their walk with God as they
look for love.
Some of the 17 chapter titles include:
Living Before Dating, What Do You Want in a Girlfriend?, The Top Five
Myths of Christian Dating, The Casual First Date,When Things Don't
Work Out, The Romantic Third Date, You Have a Girlfriend, Now What?,
Physical Intimacy, and Deeper Wounds That Need Healing.
From Baker Books (Grand Rapids, MI) in
2008, this 204-page book sells for $12.99 (trade cover).
Before
You Plan Your Wedding...Plan
Your Marriage by Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley. The Smalleys (Greg
is
the son of Gary) believe that the sooner a couple starts identifying
and confronting the challenges that their marriage will face in the
long run, the more likely their marriage will weather the storm. They
openly and candidly discuss many of their own early conflicts
surrounding in-laws, communication and finances and provide you with
insights on how to deal with such issues. Their use of Scripture will
encourage you to include God in every aspect of your
relationship.
Some of the 11 chapter titles
include
If We Had Only Known, How to Have a “10” Engagement, God's
Purpose for Marriage, Do You Want to Dance?, Personal Responsibility,
Heart Talk, Will You Forgive Me?, Teamwork, Putting It All Together,
Leaving and Cleaving. Each chapter ends with a some exercises and
homework the couple can do to make the most out of the material in
that chapter.
From Howard Books (div. of Simon &
Schuster) in 2008, this 322-page book sells for $19.99 (hard cover).
Living
Together: Myths, Risks &
Answers by Mike and Harriet McManus. This book helps couples
see the
myths and dangers of LTA's (Living Together Arrangements) before
marriage and provides suggestions for moving them into healthy,
rewarding, long-term marriages. The authors provide lots of valuable
statistics to back up their conclusions that couples in LTA's are in
high risk situations on several levels. In addition to providing help
for couples in LTAs, the book is also a tool for church leaders, a
guide
for parents of cohabiting adult children, and a call to couples of
successful marriages to mentor those couples wanting to marry.
Some of the ten chapter titles include:
Why Couples Live Together, Risks of Cohabitation, The Unpleasant
Truth About Cohabitation, A Case for Marriage, The Church's
Responsibility, The Right Way to Test a Relationship, Mentors and
Mentoring, Teaching Relationship Skills and The Community Marriage
Policy. The authors also include a Sample Community Marriage Policy
and list 220 cities that have adopted the covenants.
From Howard Books (div. of Simon &
Schuster, NY) in 2008, this 234-page book sells for $19.99 (hard
cover).
Get
Married by Candice
Watters. This
book is aptly subtitled, What Women Can Do To Help It Happen. It is
the story of how one woman bought into her professor's philosophy of
becoming pro-active in pursueing her dream of getting married. It
worked. In her book she advises to live “like you're planning to
marry.” This is done by esteeming marriage, encouraging men, and
embracing a Christian community to help you reach your goal. In
short, she demonstrates that if you wish to get married, there are
things you can do to help it happen.
Some of the nine chapter titles are
Believe Marriage Is a Worthwhile and Holy Pursuit, God's Still in the
Business of Making Good Matches, You Need a Network, Pulling a Ruth,
Praying Boldly, and Living Like You're Planning to Marry. In her
appendix she provides some thoughtful answers to some hard questions
about relationships and marriage.
From Moody Publishers (Chicago) in 2008, this
196-page book sells for $12.99 (trade cover).
He's
Saved But Is He For Real? By
Kimberly Brooks. This is a novel about the lives and loves of three
friends, Michelle, Liz and Sandy, as they are learning that a good,
saved man isn't always easy to find—but he's definitely worth
waiting for. This is a story about friendship, forgiveness and
trusting your heart.
The book was published in 2008 by
Kimani Press (Detroit), the book contains 39 untitled chapters and
315 pages. It sells for $14.95 (trade cover).
When
Love's in View by Dr.
Conway and
Jada Edwards. The subtitle says it all; this book is about “finding
focus in dating and relationships.” The authors state their purpose
is to encourage men and women to be content in their singleness and
to be open to a God-inspired view of dating, love and relationships.
They discuss courtship and dating from a biblical perspective and
share their own story along the way. The result is an encouraging and
thought-provoking guide to help you develop God-honoring
relationships.
Some of the eight chapter titles
include: The Journey Begins, The Man You Are Becoming, The Woman You
Are Becoming, Who's Your Comforter?, Experiencing Healthy
Relationships, and Got F.A.I.T.H.? The final chapter contains
11
frequently asked questions with the authors responses. The book
concludes with a valuable Discussion Guide based upon the chapter
topics.
Published in 2008 jointly by
Moody
Publishers (Chicago) and the Institute for Black Family Development
(Detroit), this 147-page book sells for $12.99 (trade cover).
The
Spark by Jay and Laura
Laffoon. As
the subtitle says, this book is about “Igniting the Passion,
Mystery, and Romance in Your Marriage." The husband-wife team of
authors tackle the biggest obstacles to intimacy in marriage with an
irresistible combination of humor and wisdom. Together they identify
five facets that are vital to a healthy marriage. They share their
own experiences as well as the stories gleaned from their survey of
more than 2000 married couples.
Some of the 12 chapter titles include:
Social Intimacy, Mental Intimacy, Emotional Intimacy, Physical
Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy, Lose Yourself, Love Your Spouse and
Lift the Marriage.The discussion questions at the end of each chapter
help develop positive action steps to keep the flame burning.
From Baker Books (Grand Rapids, MI) in
2008, this 185-page book sells for $12.99 (trade cover).

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Crazy Love: Dealing
with Your Partner’s Problem Personality by W. Brad Johnson, PhD.
and Kelly
Murray, PhD. This book sheds light on
the odd but surprising personality disorders. The authors, both
psychologists,
tell us why so many of us are attracted to personality disordered
partners
(PDPs) and offer strategies for detecting and avoiding such potential
disasters. They also offer hope for readers already in committed
relationships
with personality-impaired partners, with healthy survival strategies
and tips
for making the relationship more livable.
Some of the 16 chapter
topics include: The Doubting Partner, The Detached Partner, The
Odd
Partner, The
Dangerous Partner, The Theatrical Partner, The Self-Absorbed Partner,
The
Undermining Partner, The Rigid Partner and the Glum Partner. The book
concludes
with a chapter for those already married to a PDP.
From Impact
Publishers (Atascadero, CA) in 2007, this 233-page book sells for $17.95 (trade
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